most of us aren't happy with who we are at the moment, so the best way to move through that, is to change. If we change little things about our lives, all the time and convince our subconscious that change is ok, then we'll make bigger changes towards being who we really are.
so.... ready, set, CHANGE!
"today i changed x. picture evidence here."
Changes to be made:
Tato: shoes. get something flashy. bright colours. Put some colors in your shoes. Red heels then, of course. red sneakers. dont care if you take a paint brush to some ratty old ones to make it so. get a pair of red shoes, and wear bright colours.
oooh, tato is going to be tha bomb!
Luufie: change hair. put some scissors to it.
Jacob: change your room. put all the clutter in a big trashbag and stuff it under your bed. lots of empty spaces, whites. whatever clutter you want back after 2 weeks, put it back. whatever you didnt miss, toss.
Kaiki: wear make-up. eyeshadow in pretty colours, some rouge, mascara, maybe some pretty necklace type things.
Tina: physical exercise, running, yoga
Mari: sit and make up stories. maybe write them down, but imagine random things, go wild.
Luna: say no to someone, anyone, at least 5 times a day. and not little wimpy things, luna.
Enelya: smoke pot
Mel: start dancing. silly dances, in front of the mirror, every morning. at least 10 minutes, dont care if to music or not, but shake it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEyRg5mX ... 1&index=75
Nam: watch some movies you'd never ever consider watching. cheesy chickflicks or terribly horror movies
Yvonne: gets to talk to a child every day. someone under 10. preferably under 5. if you really cant find one, make one up and have at least a 10 min convo with them about something that excites them. different kid, yes.
Nightfall: she gets to lounge in a bath/shower for an hour each day and pamper herself crazy, no thinking allowed. soft furry towels and lotions and soft music and backrubs.
Rohaa: talk to at least one random stranger a day. and not just hi. intense more than 10 min convo talk.
Epic: gets to have a conversation a day in which he doesnt make any jokes or tries to laugh/be funny/mongoose/be cute.
Katt: Sing. in private in your own room if nothing else. but try for public.
Agna: wear silly hats
Rohaa says, "nothing says you cant do all of the above, everyone. just do your own, also"
change, have fun, be yourself!
it doesn't have to be so serious... start with the little things and work your way up!
let's see what we all got. post daily. we want pics, proof, and remnants of your fun!!!
Rohaa says about change: “and now the world needs even more ppl to quit being OP and to actually go make this place worth living. which starts with making your own life worth living. which starts with finding out who you are, so you can go be that. sure, its scary if you have to change from OP to IP. but that's something we're all working on, and we can help each other through it. what helps if you're stuck not wanting to change is to change on purpose. to grab every little detail in your life and change it, no matter if it's good or bad or ... If it can be changed, change it. change your route to school. change your normal breakfast. go to bed an hour later or earlier. wear radically different clothes. listen to a style of music you've never even considered. change everything. what you're doing is training yourself to allow change, to convince your subc that change = ok. you're getting yourself out of the rut and peeling your cramped fingers off that routine you're in. little bits at a time. it's all the little things. the wallpaper on your computer. those silly socks you like. especially the things that make you go "oh i cant change that, ive had it that way for years!" exactly. change it. about time. and you'll find it gets easier. then when life throws change at you, you'll shrug and say "oh, well, bit more change. no problem. im good at this". and if someone challenges you, do it. (or admit to being a wimp
) we can make this a group exercise. every day, challenge someone else to change x. dont care what x is, can be any little thing. simple motto: everything that can be changed should be changed. imagine doing this exercise for a few weeks. you're taking different routes through town every day, finding places you had no idea were there. you've changed your diet (and changed it again), your clothes, tried new hobbies.... and suddenly your intuition says "you're not an accountant, you're a circus director!" what do you do?You become a circus director!
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