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Discussion started by Rohaa(Black****), on 4 years ago

When you've spent most of your life responding from one Clan and you have made a decision to change to another Clan... all your habits are suddenly going to work against your. All your "Oh I just do that"s suddenly don't apply anymore, because from your new orientation, you don't "just do that". You do something totally different. 

There is a need to pay close attention to your habits especially when you are just changing, and to constantly scan "How would I do that as a [NewClan]?" and "Is this an [OldClan] behaviour? 

The Clan behaviours, attitudes, and responses are everywhere in your life. It's not just when you do sourcing, sensing or shaping that it suddenly becomes relevant. It affects the way you talk, the clothes you pick, how you respond to situations in life, what food you like to eat and how much and in what bite sizes, what people you want to be around and how much... and all the little details that I can't describe without writing a book chapter. You're going to have to start watching for them. And it's going to feel weird doing it the new way. Wrong, sometimes. Difficult, often. If you're serious about your change, you get to do it anyway. 

We'll use this discussion thread to catch your habits and talk about them. 

Once a day if you can, post something in here where you caught yourself responding from your old Clan, and how you think your new Clan would have responded. For example: "I was stomping around the house today and remodeling the livingroom, I dragged the couch to another room! That was Shaper! As a Senser I'd have first spent some time sensing if it needed changed, if my anxiousness had anything to do with the room at all, and then where the couch would work the best."

Let's have some!

 

 

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Rohaa(Black****)
Rohaa(Black****)
Even after two years, I still sometimes just keep going and doing when I'm feeling something (tired, overwhelmed, an anger, scared) and end up feeling more worn out and doing a bad job because it doesn't *work* that way for Sensers. The Senser way is to notice, to stop, to handle, to get out of the way of the messy thing and then to do whatever feels appropriate. Not to push and shove and just barrel through.
4 years ago
Susanne(Brown***)
Susanne(Brown***)
Cool thing: I used to be REALLY fussy about crumbs in my cleavage. A3's probably know what I talk about here. It would tickle and itch and I would spend half my time eating bread fishing the crumbs out or shaking my dress/shirt. I notice the last few days a couple of times already I suddenly notice after hours and hours since eating a thing that I find GIANt amounts of crumbs in my shirt/dress. I mean a lot. And go, oh that was there? :D
4 years ago
Mika(Blue**)
Mika(Blue**)
on a second note, the bubble does not scan, it more trying to tune out and not be present cat and feeling overwhelmed with all the things keeping going around me.
4 years ago
Mika(Blue**)
Mika(Blue**)
well, i still tune out when too much going on and try to go in a bubble with lalala land but is less long now. i caught myself doing this in a meeting and then tried to pay attention and breathe and let the energies go after feeling some of them,
4 years ago